how smart to phrase it like that, but also when you are saying it, your brain actually puts you in that situation, so of course the most logical answer which you truly practice will come out!!!

I Applaud you BLR for admitting your mistakes, cuz usually people who do that don't admit they are doing it.

and I agree with both of you BBM and BLR that our lives, with our family and pets is too bz to care and preach to others