The funny thing is - once a indescretion is admitted and brought to light - things are never the same again.

They can be good in a different way - but they are never the same.

Having been there...being cheated on..I totally agree but it isnt funny. Things will never be the same again...even if they stay together and continue to work on thier marriage. Thats what marriage is ..work. Trust broken is hard to regain. It can be done but boy is it hard work to regain that trust. It definatly leaves a huge scar on the heart of the one who was cheated on.