Oh my gosh! you are asking the wrong person about this. I am a celibate person and it's been so long since I've even been in a situation like that ..... one thing I might could tell you. I think that it would freak a guy out if you tell them that at 25, you've never been kissed and all that! That's just what I think. Don't know. Maybe there's some people on here that could help you more. Good luck on this.

I have put these posts in a new thread in the correct section:
http://www.wineintro.com/forum/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=368636&#Post368636
PDM