I respect the rules of this website, and definitely enjoy myself here, but you definitely have to be more aware of what you're writing for fear of offending someone or simply saying the wrong thing. The other site that Carl is referring to was designed in a way that people can speak more openly without fear of stepping on someone's toes. However, the people on that site are very caustic and at times hurtful. For me, both sites are a lot of fun and quite challenging. I feel very displaced here since I lost my bird. I feel that I can't contribute anymore. Maybe, that's the reason I sought out other forums.