I apologize to everyone for the slow server issues we've been having. I've been working on it daily.
Today I just upgraded all three forums to the latest UBB version which just came out yesterday - 7.5.7. I also upgraded this forum here's MySQL tables to INNODB. I was testing that change in the other forums first, just to make sure it worked OK. It did work OK there so I've made that same change here.
Hopefully these will all help improve things.
My next effort once we're sure this is stable is to upgrade us from PHP 5.3.19 to PHP 5.4.9. I want to make sure I have time between each change to watch for problems. That way if something goes wrong we know which step did it