Jo, I don't blame you for not wanting to get those tests done. For what it's worth I think you're doing the right thing. Hubby would miss them even more if something were to happen to them due to the tests. And I'm sure he would never forgive himself if something DID happen.
In the big scheme of things nine months isn't so bad.
He'll just have to stick it out..and maybe you can get videos of them for him?? He's obviously a tough guy having conquered all he has been thru. 9 more months without seeing Cookie & Sweetie should practically be a piece of cake for him!
You guys hang in there. It will all work out. Another HUGE congrats on the 100 day post transplant!!! Can't tell ya how happy I am for yous