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 Re: a mirror that shows your heart
[Re: tweetymom]
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05/25/09 01:18 AM
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baby blue
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maybe freaked, maybe not. welcome! if i may say joujou, i am not an "active" person either. i have had a 23 yr marriage. these things are so hard to figure out.men and women do those things, it is human nature. humans have egos, and there are times i am convinced that if egos didn't exist, the worl would be much less tangled! egos prevent people from telling the truth, to themselves or others. i don't want you to be hurt, but, if he dosen't have what it takes to speak to you to your face and explain what he meant... then, he may be right. you deserve everything you would give to someone else, don't let anyone walk on you. if you have waited this long for the right one... keep waiting, because when you find him, there will be no worries. you will be able to answer your own question because it will be the "right" answer. let your heart guide you... not take you over. good luck dear, do what is right for you. I have put these posts in a new thread in the correct section:
http://www.wineintro.com/forum/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=368636&#Post368636
PDM
Last edited by PDM; 05/25/09 10:08 AM.
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Re: a mirror that shows your heart
[Re: tweetymom]
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05/25/09 01:52 AM
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baby blue
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what would be in the mirror?..... it would show, i think, plants, birds, fishing rods, people who need a reason to smile. there would be a person among the plants, who doesn't think well of herself. because of that, (i think), she is automatically drawn to trying to help everyone else and want to see them all happy. oh yeah, the mirror probably be rattling from the base pounding from a large sub woofer and loud rock music!
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Re: May 22, '09 Friday If you could be any flowering..
[Re: baby blue]
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05/25/09 02:42 AM
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tealcandtina
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I am a nasturtium, spicy , colorful abundant growth , grows best in crummy soil!
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Re: a mirror that shows your heart
[Re: baby blue]
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05/25/09 02:44 AM
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OMG baby blue, take away the fishing rod and i think it might be me in the mirror!I was thinking along the same lines as what you said as I was reading everyone else's replies. Very weird! LOL In place of the fishing rod there would be a Harley.My 2 boys and my husband are also major parts of who I am and what keeps my heart beating. And I could never be complete without my dog at my side 
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Re: a mirror that shows your heart
[Re: PDM]
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05/26/09 02:30 PM
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Carl
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If a mirror could reveal your heart (not your physical heart, but who you are), what would it show? I think that I am basically very honest & I mean well (and sometimes the two don't go well together). Often I don't understand why everyone else isn't honest & well-meaning too. Then I try to understand these other incomprehensible people. If I am successful in understanding them, then others cannot understand why I might sympathise with dishonest or not-well-meaning people. It can be very complicated ~ nor not. How well I understand this, PDM. This is a very insightful post! I also have to stop and think before I speak (write). It's similar to one of the steps of the 12-step recovery programs - making amends except when to do so harms others. But it is complicated. Sometimes it may be important to say what's on one's heart, even when it may cause unease or even reveal one's own "splinters in the eye." But when the heart is basically a loving, caring one - such as yours, PDM, I think the outcome is going to be good ultimately.
Marge is the love of my life.
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Re: a mirror that shows your heart
[Re: Niki]
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05/26/09 02:34 PM
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Carl
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What a nifty thread/game! Wonder why I didn't spot it before... If a mirror could reveal your heart (not your physical heart, but who you are), what would it show? What a difficult question! What of you, Carl? As for me, it would show the persecuted innocent and children/infants. If there's anything this heart beats for, it's little ones. Honestly, the rest of the mirror would be awfully hard and stubborn. I have no compassion for stupidity and senseless violence, nor for much else. My heart has always been like a mother, I've been told. My childhood and life have been difficult (and joyful also, thankfully). My heart reaches out to people in their reality. Sometimes the reality is not pretty, but to change the Martina McBride song just a bit, love them [do it] anyway. I think my heart remains open to love and to be loved. This was my prayer during my darkest hour, and God answered my prayer.
Marge is the love of my life.
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Re: a mirror that shows your heart
[Re: Carl]
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05/26/09 02:37 PM
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PDM
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I can but hope.
"The secret of success is constancy to purpose" - Benjamin Disraeli.
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Re: a mirror that shows your heart
[Re: PDM]
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05/26/09 02:38 PM
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Carl
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Yes, I think that we are probably all contradictions of what we think we are, want to be, really are, perceived to be, etc, etc.
It's a difficult question, because we feel that only we, ourselves, really know what is going on inside us, yet only others can really know how we behave to the outside world.
Which is the real me?
Without that mirror it's hard to be sure. So true, PDM. I have a LONG poem where the writer talks about the different aspects of ourselves - what we actually are, what we want to be, how we see ourselves, how others see us, and so on. And it talks about the facades we hide behind because we are frightened to have anyone know us as we really are (or think we are), but we long nonetheless for someone to both know us and appreciate us. Perhaps the best mirror is the smile (or other expression of appreciation) of someone to whom you have shown love and caring.
Marge is the love of my life.
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Re: a mirror that shows your heart
[Re: joujou]
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05/26/09 02:42 PM
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Carl
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hi actually i just registred in this forum so i don't know how we proceed to ask questions and get answers .i'll ask you im 25 years old i've never been kissed i've never been in a date it's by choice i just want to be with the one and only .there's a lot of guys around me waiting for just a gesture from me seriously but i've never been interested until this guy i just had a super deeper crush im in love for the first time in my life so i did the first step i wrote him a super sweet note and a gave it to him he texted me at midnight to tell me it touched him and we should go out and start to know each other .but the next day he ignored me completly did i mention we work together so i was confused and in the evening he texted me again to tell me that he was flatered that a girl like me is interested by someone like him but he doesn't deserve me and he was sorry .have you ever seen a 12hours love story.the problem i see him everyday at work he's really nice and loveble with everyone exept me actually i wrote him in the note that i want to have my first kiss ever with him.i mean if in this synical world where we live you find someone sincere and nice and you say no to him you might have a problem.shoul i just ignore him too i know its a very childish thing but i might have 25 yearsand a successful career but im just a 12years old girl at heart .im lost in this men world what should i do tweetymom.thanks a lot if you read this.wish you a lot of love and happiness im jiji by the way. I have put these posts in a new thread in the correct section:
http://www.wineintro.com/forum/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=368636&#Post368636
PDM Joujou, welcome to the board. I'll post a response in the section that PDM moved it to (probably the romance section). I went to another state for the wedding of a favorite uncle to a wonderful lady - Sunday and Monday, so I'm sorry I'm just now seeing these wonderful posts.
Marge is the love of my life.
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