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Re: max didnt make it [Re: Balthazar] #283826 04/24/08 08:29 PM
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thank you all ... and balthazar that is just too sweet ... look at sweet little max... i almost cant bare to be in my bedroom at all ... it doesnt feel the same without max ... i got his blankie back and i know i need to wash it but i cant ... it smells like max ...


am i crazy ???


i honestly feel like ive lost a family member ...

samaa keeps lookin for max ... she keeps chirping for him and lookin in the other cage and travel cage and cnat find him and its breaking my heart ... she has never been alone before ...

i loved him so much and when it came to the end i wasnt there for him he was all alone, and that just eats me up inside ... i just hope he knew i didnt give up and i didnt abandon him... maybe i should have taken him in sooner i duno ...

Re: max didnt make it [Re: ] #283833 04/24/08 08:42 PM
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Omg Helwa!! I'm about to cry. frown You did everything you could have. It was just his time. He's in a better place right now and I'm sure he knows you didn't abandon him. smile But this is just so sad.... I don't even have words for it. Only time will heal.


Re: max didnt make it [Re: Seafoam] #283840 04/24/08 08:54 PM
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just got off the phone with the vet, they will do the necropsy now, the thought of which is too painful to think about.

but the possibility that he has TB is so great that they need to do it to be sure, as i was exposed, my other birds were exposed, my husband, and the vet staff, so its a public health issue and petco of course said well he is dead so we are no longer responsible for it, and they could care less about the public health issue.

im just crying so much, and samaa is now sitting on my shoulder nibbling on my ear ... which is sweet ... she has always been so skiddish so i can only think she knows im sad.

the vet said they will give me the body back to bury after the tests are done.

THANK GOODNESS ... cuz i need to have that closure ...

Re: max didnt make it [Re: Nancy30] #283843 04/24/08 09:02 PM
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I am so sorry to hear that Max did not make it. You did all you could and Max knew it. You are a wonderful mom and gave Max all the love that you could.


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Re: max didnt make it [Re: Sharonmz] #283846 04/24/08 09:06 PM
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cloud looks like what id imagine max to look like when he grew up:) such a cutie

Re: max didnt make it [Re: ] #283849 04/24/08 09:11 PM
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Words can not express the sorrow I feel for you. You did everything you could for him and for just a small moment of his little life you were able to make him happy. That is what you should remember. Without you he would have been left in the horrible horrible conditions of Petco or been "returned" by someone who was unhappy with a sick bird. You were the first and last thing that was good in his life and that is wonderful.

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Originally Posted By: *helwa*
max passed away during the night last night.

the vet is going to do a necropsy to know exactly what happened. so i cant have him to bury him or anything, i cant hold him one last time or anything.

i wish i had know the last time i saw him would be really the last time.

he died all alone in an incubater probally looking for me ... and i wasnt there for him. i'm sorry about your loss again but this song is something you can dedicate to your pets or people you know who've passed on
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this is a song sang at the funeral for the baby rabbit...

anywhere's here's a link.(please read the description to know more about the song people.)

http://youtube.com/watch?v=iSGiO1s8Otw




i feel like i didnt do enough, i didnt do things right ...

i want him back and my heart is just broken ... ive been in tears literally all day i cant get out of bed ... and samaa wont SHUT UP .... she knows max is gone im sure and she has been screeching all day and its driving me crazy i cant do anything to make her happy i feel like such a failure.

just wanted to let everyone know.

i'm sorry about your loss but you can always try again and remember all the pets you have right now are probable saying stuff like or said stuff like "isn't our owner so kind and all?" then another responding "yeah."

Re: max didnt make it [Re: Mandy's mom] #283851 04/24/08 09:46 PM
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Helwa - I am so sorry to hear about what has happened. Please... never be hard on yourself. You care a lot about your birds and give them the best care. They love you and understand that you do the best thing for them. Max is gone, but he is now free of his sick body. He's probably chirping at you from birdy heaven while he pigs out on millet.


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Re: max didnt make it [Re: Four Keets] #283856 04/24/08 09:52 PM
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im so happy he is no longer sick and hurting, that was heart breaking to see him so weak ... i just miss him so much ... my heart misses holding him ...

Re: max didnt make it [Re: ] #283872 04/24/08 10:28 PM
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I am so sorry helwa! I haven't been here long but in the short time that I have, I have seen that you did everything you possibly could for poor little Max. You were a wonderful mommy for him and he was so lucky to have you!
Lot's of hugs to you!!


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