Look I am going to stand by what I said if you cant handle that then it is your problem not mine. You left me a private message with a different tone then you come on this post and have a different tone with me afterwards and with that it looks 2-faced. Sorry but like you said TRUTH HURTS. Im not saying you are a mean person or that you intentionally meant to be rude or anything else for that matter I know you were just trying to be helpful and that you let your anger get the best of you it's only human right? yes it is now with what I posted maybe everyone yes including you will handle it differently next time and if not then so be it. I am so over this already you want to continue to be petty with everything that I type then so be it I just dont like it when someone says one thing to me privately then something else afterwards in a post for everyone to see. Sorry but thats the truth.

TOO many people have been rude to new people asking questions and then those people dont come back for advise because of it and it is simple as that excuse me for caring that these people get the advice they need so if they ever need it in the future they will feel like they can come to us without all this non-sense.

ILoveMyKeets:
This is all getting confusing..... I don't think you were part of the other posts made by lala PRIOR to this post that got all of us a little on the defense. If this was the first post on the subject, I could see where it may have seemed that MJLHH's post was a little harsh, but there were several conversations prior to this post that got this topic a little heated, therefore there was a little passion behind it. I think all is solved now...Lala is doing things differently and MJLHH has changed the way she was approaching this post long ago....and honestly the only persons tone I am getting offended by is yours.

Nope I wasn't apart of any priors made by lala I am only commenting on this post only nothing else as I wasn't here for her other posts she may have made the past few days as I havent been here do to a death in the family but when I comment on a subject I go off the posts made in that subject and yes now my tone has changed due to MJL writing to me in private to resolve certain things and then coming on here after she does that and say something else of course my tone is going to change and yours would too if the same was done to you.

OC Mommy is right. ILoveMyKeets, the only reason MJLHH was getting a little frustrated was because this is the 2nd or 3rd separate topic LaLa had made about the same subject. We responded several times so it was like we were repeating ourselves in this topic. Anyhow, it is funny how the tone that we mean in our posts gets lost because of typing. I suppose it is bound to happen and will probably happen again at some point in the future. We then will have to address it again so people know our true intentions.

Exactly four keets and I agree I said that earlier how peoples tones in these posts sometimes come off rude because we are not there and cant hear or see the person then I stated which Is why I responded to this posts so maybe we can better handle it next time thats all nothing more. Im glad someone noticed it.

I know her responses were not intentionally meant to be mean or rude I stated that several times already.

i dont see how my tone was any different on here than it was in private, i was just trying to make you feel better in this post by letting everyone know THAT i know you werent directing it at me. so how is that a different tone. now your being a hypocrite saying that people misjudge peoples tone in a post and you just did it yourself, why dont you copy and paste what i said to everyone? and see what they say? since now your saying im 2 faced to everyone in public. now your really heating up the situation and i was just trying to resolve it.

ILoveMyKeets:
If I were unhappy with the way another forum member acted via PM or whatever, I would keep it private so that it would not drag the whole community into my problem. If you have a problem with MJLHH, you need to take it up with her in private and keep it there.

four keets EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i was tired of repeating myself. and i definatly think people misjudged my tone of voice.

Well that was exactly what I was saying dont come to me in private wanting to resolve the situation and then afterwards go public and keep the situation going. Sorry but that is 2-faced and hypocritical.