You get a bird to love, to be with and to enjoy each others companionship. They aren't implements or toys to be used when the urge arises.
I feel sorry for this poor little bird who's appears to be going to be subjected to a life of less than loving quality.
I think what you need to do is to find a loving home for this bird, where someone can and will take the time to bond with it and look after it.
I see far too many birds suffer anxiety, stress, health issues etc. because they're neglected and then have training and love forced on them.