I was basically just refering to illusive. When somebody is in distress about their animals, i wouldn't want someone just replying "lesson learned." Just because everyone here bows down to her, thats fine. But, if i was upset and this happened to my bird, I wouldn't be asking for an attitude. Suggestions are good. Like many of you made great suggestions, and thats prefect. This is a forum, not a critic. This is a great website and has more than enough information, stories, and pictures. Also, great for people like me who are unsure and need to ask questions. If my cat got outside and went missing, i would like suggestions. I don't want people telling me I should learn my lesson on how to avoid letting my cat get out. jeez, relax.