I think this has gotten way off track and I feel it is my fault. Please re-read this part of my original post:
rtegge, I know you feel very badly for what you did and Helwa is right on with her advice and words...........................................
Please, to anyone else reading my comments, don't take this as an open invitation to jump on this poster or to start making accusations.
As for your budgie, I do hope that you are able to remain calm and loving and that the trust will be regained. Good luck
